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I am often surprised at how so many people find anything of value in such meaningless worthless most elementary content and consider themselves as genuises because they merely heard something so mundane. It makes me think that there are so many incredibly stupid people out in the world. Millenails/zoomers are probably the most useless worthless generation in the history of man kind.
Coming back to this interview 3 years later, gotta say its my favorite of all time from Gary V. Seeing him much calmer and explain HustleWith Intention which is basically essentialism, was really refreshing.
My husband and I jumped at the opportunity to rent my parents guest house to save money and be right next to them. My dad had 2 strokes in 2020 and I am grateful to have been so close and be able to still help. We have also made a huge dent in our debt. The rest of the family jokes about us living in the guest house but I couldn't care less.
The TRUTH about Gary is that he is the next President of Belarus. I mean, Gary, I'm like sereious, 70 years ago my grandfather fought agains nazi and brought a great victory back home. And it was not just him, not only my grandfather but the grandfather next door and the next door (Debussy plays) and so on. Have you ever thought about just a bit of a pay in return? Isn't it the time I mean a great time for being greatful and pay back? My grand grandfather on my mom line was a veterenerian were I was born, I was brought to his family home when I was born cuz my parents had no separate place to live and my dad (rocket scientist at the time) had to work construction site after building rockets so those hours counts and they get apt faster and basically he build the 10 story building, night shifts, were they got an apt. So that grand grand father died in Belarus a year before the war ending. The WW2 victory is not only russia's and belarus presidents celebration. I want you to kill the myth about everything, I want you to look at belarus president and every citizen out there like Modigliani looked at his fiancee father face saying the same exact words he was said. Free out the nation Gary, prove their anti-Semitic piece of mind wrong.
Living at home for longer is currently the make or break decision in today’s world. When I was younger, everyone based “success” and “failure” on whether you were still living at home at 16, or 18, or 21. There is a huge stigma attached to it, even by your own parents because it’s what they were brought up with themselves. Moving out at 18 might have been “the done thing” in the 70’s/80’s, but not now. Find me an 18 year old that can afford their own place or has the deposit for their own place? They’ve either had a significant amount of help from much older parents, or they’ve stayed at home until their mid-20’s to save up. Eastern communities have this shit figured out. Rather than have 10 family members split between 4 houses, they share one to reduce costs. Whilst they’re more likely to be working a more basic and repetitive job than the average person their age, they’ve probably got more disposable income available because there’s others chipping in to subsidise the cost. 3 people living in a 3 bed house with a spare room for toys isn’t an efficient way to live. If everyone moved back in with their parents (assuming there’s a good relationship there), everyone wins. Everyone is financially better off and it turns certain problems into trivialities. Childcare/pet care practically becomes a non-issue if your parents are retired. There’s only 1 property that needs to be maintained financially and kept clean. Imagine how much money and time we’d save if we just lived in larger family units... Our society really is pushing a nonsensical agenda. It only benefits the bottom line, and that’s money in the pot or pocket or governments or giant corporations that wouldn’t be here without it.
0:00 Getting rid of social, we consume as animals and if one feels overfeed than they should stop observing it. 0:45 GaryVee talks about minimalism 1:56 People are insecure and need validation from others, buy stuff for yourself. 2:47 downsize and move with your parents. (Dont worry about what they say to you.) 4:59 happiness and fulfillment are the most important things 5:39 Matt D'Avella said he also moved home, because he wanted to save money, and not to waste it. 7:07 how to hustle with ambitions. Dont over judge yourself through the process. Because sometimes you fall, you aren't perfect it happens, be happy. Depends on the circumstances you should act, you need to self motivate and keep pushing 12:18 think about the people who work 9-5 no matter what happens they arent happy and not in control.
This doesn't really work for those of us that cant live with our parents though. Which is a big hurdle. people don't realise how lucky they are to just be able to go, oh well. Moving back in with my folks.
I lived with my mom until i was 35 im 38 now. My sister moved out when she was 22. She lived with my dad for a while then moved in with some guy that she ended up marrying. I took advantage living with my mom. I didint pay much rent. So i saved my money . I knew one day i wanted to buy a house. My sister always made fun of me for still living at home. Always belittled me. Well i saved a big down payment for a house and live on my own. Where is my sister now???? Divorced with debt and fucked up credit and no retirement plan . Oh and she moved it with my mom and her daughter.
I marvel at finding out that an idea like -'living with your parents' is a stigma in western society, when we have always been living like that in the rest of the world. That's really sad that you have been convinced by culture to live alone. And this man is creating controversies by saying, that it's okay to live with your parents? Really?! It makes complete sense to live with your parents, emotionally, economically, socially and spiritually in any other way. What's wrong with living with family?! Who else do you have in this world!! Who else do they have other than you?!!
the moving back with your parents part is true Im from a different culture which living with your parents is not seen as a bad thing so it sucks when people stress over these things
I think I have a hard time watching this, because the video is clearly meant for people who are living beyond their means within their control. There's a lot of people that don't have a choice and are living outside their means without any other option (no parents to help, single families, families in poverty, etc). I've been in that situation and I know so many people who are in this situation. I also think this doesn't apply to like 90% of millennials I know or who have been in my life. Maybe Gen X, or millennials who come from wealthier backgrounds. So many millennials are struggling to just pay rent or student loans, and not because they "got an oversized living space" or whatever, but because rent is WAY TOO HIGH in most places, and income is WAY TOO LOW in most places, especially when you look at student loans. People who can move in with their parents are privileged and if you can, cool. But even if your family relationships ARE good, that doesn't mean your family has the means to have you back at home either. There's a common denominator in people who struggle with money and their parents struggle with money, especially when you look at the statistics of generational poverty. TLDR; this video clearly isn't meant for people who have been where I have or many of the people in my generation I know. But it frustrated me that Gary doesn't address the problems with society that put people in debt because it's not usually people "living beyond their means and spending money they don't have on cars and houses" and just assumes most everyone can dig their way out of money issues. That's always been my problem with him though.
Wow. I resonate with this. I’m starting to feel emotionally more stable and am starting to be able to let go of stuff I’ve collected. My marriage ended terribly in 2011 where he threw everything out. I went to extreme and kept pretty much everything after that
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Hey Matt! I understand Minimalism to just mean "be very aware of where your time, your money and your attention go, and make sure you are using these in a way that sustains your intentions, ambitions and joy".Not about having no stuff or working few hours, but more about not wasting time and space for things or activities that you don't really want. So really it's about mindfulness and awareness I believe. Would you say that is a fair remark? I love your work, well done mate :)
I did it moved back to take care of them . So they did not have to go to a home . My wife was asked by my mom . And she said yes . Was a great 10 years I enjoyed it so much . Seeing them that long my wife was amazing quit her job and took care of them.
The difference between social media and the other platforms or content is an advanced intelligent self evolving algorithm designed to addict and engage you. Social media feeds are laid out to guide you into deeper engagement so I wouldn't agree that all people act what out what they are initially seeking on these platforms. Its just not an informed position.
I’m actually getting a house to PURPOSELY live with my parents. They don’t own one, so me moving back in wouldn’t work. But I miss them like crazy. Obviously I’d still rent out a part of it.
In 15:15 Gary V literally said that he'd rather get 20 percent of his audience to get bored from saying the same old thing to get him the opportunity to reach more people and Matt D'Avella has been saying his story in about his student debt ever since lol.
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Weird this showed up on my feed. Moving in with my parents next week and felt like a loser. This is very reassuring, doing it to pay off debt and get real estate license. Great content.
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I hate that people read his passion as “over the top” or him “being a dick”. When you care about what you’re doing, when you are looking to inspire those around you & live out your purpose... you’re going to curse, and you’re going to speak excitedly, etc. this man is a genuine gem & I’m so so happy to have him ❤️
Lol..in India grown ups living with their parents is the norm, not the exception. I don't understand how there can be a 'stigma' about it. Grown up children get to keep an eye on their parents as they get older and need more support.
Social Media and Consumerism is real and dangerous as it even gets to the best of us... Manipulation of the mind on what is good and bad is easy... Be better version of yourself and even though many like Gary and Matt "Maybe" want to help you, many are out to gain from you which destroys your spirit in the process.... #Stayalert