Don't let these 3 things ruin your life.

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Matt D'Avella
Matt D'Avella - År siden
1. Don't set unrealistic expectations.
2. Don't worry about metrics.
3. Don't be a perfectionist.
Zach Dellinger
Zach Dellinger - 2 måneder siden
Wow im doing all 3
Prajwal Nalige
Prajwal Nalige - 3 måneder siden
i wish you could like a comment thrice
Adam Barnett
Adam Barnett - 5 måneder siden
Thank you times infinity
Dety Vitanova
Dety Vitanova - 6 måneder siden
Sadly, all these three describe me
Sean Matthew King
Sean Matthew King - 6 måneder siden
But those are my favorite things to do?
Glen Jauod
Glen Jauod - 16 dager siden
1:06 okay you got me
The64v - Måned siden
I do not even have parents (plural), and the one I do have is not capable of supporting herself or me when I was a kid. Not everyone has parents who own a house, let alone an additional CABIN in upstate PA. Not relatable. There are not too many places I can go and be alone in nature here. Even if I go to the park, there are boatload of other people and crowds present. There is just so much two-parent middle class privilege in your videos.
10111 01
10111 01 - 2 måneder siden
Upstate PA cabin - sounds like the Poconos.
Shiene Arjun
Shiene Arjun - 2 måneder siden
this are so good lessons
marisaj - 2 måneder siden
I'm binging your videos right now, and I have to just say you're an amazing human being!!!
bunga padmapurani
bunga padmapurani - 2 måneder siden
this one is golden
PAVAN KALYAN - 2 måneder siden
I'm big fan of Matt from INDIA . I started to see my life in different view after I start to watch videos.
Nancy Solari
Nancy Solari - 2 måneder siden
Great video! It's important to avoid getting t in the way of your own happiness so that you can live full out!
Shubham Kawade
Shubham Kawade - 2 måneder siden
Today I was feeling nervous...and I come to this really made me feel better Thank you for your help :-)
Mindset With Josh
Mindset With Josh - 2 måneder siden
Great video! As a content creator, not worrying about the metrics is huge. I struggle with that quite often, but I'm aiming to get to the point where I don't care at all about the size of my following. It's the healthy route to go!
Aidan D.
Aidan D. - 2 måneder siden
"Perfectionism is something impossible to obtain"
*avatar: the last airbender would like to speak to you*
Corey Singleton
Corey Singleton - 3 måneder siden
This is amazingggg. Well put!
Enric Feliu Sharp
Enric Feliu Sharp - 3 måneder siden
Thannks for helping my life!👍🏻❤️ Also i love the backgrounds i see while you talk🌳🌲🌷
Archer - 3 måneder siden
4. Don't live thinking only how you will make and upload your videos and what people are going to say about it.
HeadStrong Philosophy
HeadStrong Philosophy - 3 måneder siden
Needed this, thanks man!
no_or alamiry
no_or alamiry - 3 måneder siden
Sara - 3 måneder siden
This is an eye opening video 🙌 loved it thank you
Redacted inc.
Redacted inc. - 3 måneder siden
Small actions = big change
Maddi Cederholm
Maddi Cederholm - 3 måneder siden
He is just describing the four agreements
InspireTV - 3 måneder siden
Thank you for inspiring me, Matt.I think it's important to share the 1 thing you shouldn't let ruin your life here
Luis Ferreyra
Luis Ferreyra - 3 måneder siden
Very, very sustainable!!!
Étienne DEBIEN
Étienne DEBIEN - 4 måneder siden
Thank you Matt.
Giovanna León
Giovanna León - 4 måneder siden
Thank you for existing, you make my life a bit easier.
Borhan Firouzi
Borhan Firouzi - 4 måneder siden
Perfect content as always. Keep up the good work🔥
The Vative
The Vative - 4 måneder siden
Allen Abesamis
Allen Abesamis - 4 måneder siden
Is suicide worth it?
Sarah Melita
Sarah Melita - 4 måneder siden
Awesome video, I really enjoy your content. Thank you for your hard work in creating it.
coyoteinthecity - DIY grunge riotgrrrl music entmt.
tmw you want to do this and go to the woods and sit at a lake and a stranger comes asking if you come here often.
Anas Aamer
Anas Aamer - 5 måneder siden
Matt this seriously helps. For me, I measure myself and my popularity in college either with the number of replies I get on my texts, or either to how many people react to me. Although it is something to measure a PART of your personality with, measuring all of your personality with these metrics would put you in a pitfall you don't wanna go into. I've really been questioning the amount of free will, and your video helps me realise what's been missing. Not more friends, not my crush to approach me, but a mindful view on perfectionism. Thanks!
Kristina Krstić
Kristina Krstić - 5 måneder siden
And my heart skipped every time he was driving because I thought he will fall.
Felix Thecat
Felix Thecat - 5 måneder siden
Don't let heroin ruin your life either. Sure ruined mine pretty good...
Sebastian Shine
Sebastian Shine - 5 måneder siden
The last tip at the very end was actually one of the most free-ing inspirations I read
put so simply into words. But man. It actually is the ACTION to the theoretical "dont fall for perfection" "dont try to be perfect" advice you always hear.
I mean. I know that perfection is nothing to strive for. Exactly like you know it and we both still fall for it. Why? Because the theory is nice and good. But man, the action to this step...that is never ever talked about. And you just said it in the last few seconds.

Wanna not be perfect?
-> give yourself limited tools
-> give yourself limited time
-> give yourself limited ressources

I feel like GIVING you the limit. (not feeling like you take from yourself. but instead you give to yourself the limitation. and therefore the freedom). INTENTIONALLY limiting yourself. I feel like that is the way

Thank you Matt
Doug Clement
Doug Clement - 5 måneder siden
been dealing with depression pretty much my entire life...
Adam Barnett
Adam Barnett - 5 måneder siden
Dude... thank you
Ruslan Okhotkin_HUNT
Ruslan Okhotkin_HUNT - 5 måneder siden
Йо, привет, смотрю твои видео в переводе в России, реально полезные видео, так держать
Kylen Williams
Kylen Williams - 5 måneder siden
Do a TED talk!
PinkSprinklesandCupcakes - 6 måneder siden
Thank you- your videos have really changed my outlook on life. I've been feeling a little down lately and I really appreciate your hard work that goes into these vidoes- you make me realize all that I have to be grateful for.
Jelena Stojanovic
Jelena Stojanovic - 6 måneder siden
wow your parents have a cabin in the woods and you got a girlfriend that goes and supports you anywhere you go and you are still unhappy?... I mean what chances do I have then to be happy? xD
Ashley D
Ashley D - 6 måneder siden
I miss visiting the countryside, I'm from Pennsylvania and this video was a little bittersweet for me! I need to get back in touch with my inner country girl, I've been in the city too long.
Supriyamusic - 6 måneder siden
Love it...this is so perfect 💯❤️💙 💚
Jonathan Lisowski
Jonathan Lisowski - 6 måneder siden
Great Intro!!!
maria a
maria a - 6 måneder siden
All Terrain Vehicles (ATVs).
LaMb sAuCE
LaMb sAuCE - 6 måneder siden
Thought this channel was supposed to be ad-free? So, why am I watching an ad right now?
Hero Chan
Hero Chan - 7 måneder siden
Thanks for the advices man
E - 7 måneder siden
Easier said than done.
Kerry Foster
Kerry Foster - 7 måneder siden
Sometimes I arrive home from work around 2 to 3 am.
There is absolute natural silence. This is so rare that I feel privileged to experience it. I just stand outside and enjoy it. So simple yet so intensely satisfying in a restless world.
goingruby - 7 måneder siden
Up state PA! Can you be more specific? That river looks assume!!
RedLeg Outdoors
RedLeg Outdoors - 7 måneder siden
I'm buying a condo in Hawaii or a condo in the Smoky mountains. Either way I want to be away from people. Society as a whole sucks.
Darlene Paul
Darlene Paul - 7 måneder siden
@RedLeg Outdoors Well people are flawed that's for sure!
RedLeg Outdoors
RedLeg Outdoors - 7 måneder siden
@Darlene Paul I don't hate individuals. There's good people in this world filled with evil.....I just hate stupid people and the general populous is stupid. All I have to do is get in my car to find that out.
Darlene Paul
Darlene Paul - 7 måneder siden
I feel sorry for a person with your attitude.Nature is great and I would love to be to have a place in an area like this.But when you devalue mankind in general you tell more about yourself than you do the rest of the world.I love mankind... Amidst all it's crazy imperfection!
kjiub kill
kjiub kill - 7 måneder siden
It is easy for you to say:"Stop worrying about metrics". I work with Riemannian Geometry.(That basically studies different metrics in different spaces and universal[intrinsic] properties of those mathematical objects) :P haha
Great video by the way,! Greetings from Brazil! ;)
Reptile Nexus
Reptile Nexus - 7 måneder siden
"Stop doing that sh*t" by Gary John Bishop talks about how expectations can make you miserable. Love the life you have, not the one you expected to have.
OJKempton - 7 måneder siden
Love your videos, Matt. I really relate to what you talk about. Thanks for making them 👍
حنان حنونة
حنان حنونة - 7 måneder siden
Only God is Perfect 🙏
Chandragupta Maurya
Chandragupta Maurya - 7 måneder siden
Thank you for this useful video!
Habib ur Rehman
Habib ur Rehman - 7 måneder siden
I'm a minimalist myself. i watch your videos for other stuff. hahaha.. I love your content
Caroline - 7 måneder siden
Never stop doing what you're doing! You're awesome and your videos have changed my life 🙏🏼
Amandeep Dhir
Amandeep Dhir - 7 måneder siden
The realist thing I've heard today
cineselena - 7 måneder siden
Your videos are addicting for the brain! Thanks for making these ♥ Trying to get back on the creative train myself as these are some of the reasons I haven't made anything of my own in two years.
LOVE THE UNIVERSE - 7 måneder siden
Thank you 💚
Natashya S
Natashya S - 8 måneder siden
Great reminders. Thanks for sharing your journey with us!