Becoming an Essentialist

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forsythia witch
forsythia witch - 28 minutter siden
OR are people more busy now because inflation has gone WAY up and wages remain the same.. so we have to work more to have less than our parents have
Ryan Utz
Ryan Utz - 9 dager siden
Im never busy. I say that shit when i dont want to talk to your for more than 5 seconds.
Madeleine
Madeleine - 17 dager siden
I think this is one of the most important interviews of yours that I've watched yet. Thank you very much for sharing the edited version for free so that bordering on broke students such as myself can also benefit from your content ;) I appreciate it!
Elgie Lazaga
Elgie Lazaga - 18 dager siden
Currently reading his book, Essentialism, and it woke me up in a couple areas of my life. Glad you could have him in your channel :)))
Kingofthejunglegym
Kingofthejunglegym - 20 dager siden
In my opinion this is the best interview you’ve ever done, by far my favorite and the most important to me. I’ve watched it so many times thank you
Alessandro Giglio
Alessandro Giglio - 21 dag siden
Only few things matter that's so true
Keep it up Matt
Brittany Gonzalez
Brittany Gonzalez - 24 dager siden
This is one of the best videos you've made! Thank you so much! I love your content.
Anudari Ganbold
Anudari Ganbold - 26 dager siden
Im not sure if everyone knows the term "essentialism" in social studies... just don't get the two mixed up. Could be an awkward conversation
Natascha Flamisch
Natascha Flamisch - Måned siden
❤️
Black betty
Black betty - Måned siden
L.A. busy place :p
Acer
Acer - Måned siden
Pick and choose to avoid overwhelming the mind but learn to be in stillness as it helps us to reboot. Take on what you can and timing is great tip. I took double the time and summers off to get college recent degree looking back no regrets because family and friends didn’t get neglected, paid as I went, and now we got this pandemic!
We can learn a lot by going to an estate sale, all the material goals aren’t much of value...it’s the way you spent the time you had and relationships you maintain. Ultimately ,we need to know what we are investing our time into, that it’s something you don’t regret when sitting in that old timers rocking chair or deathbed.
The Ferals
The Ferals - Måned siden
fake.
T’s Life
T’s Life - Måned siden
I made a review and gave my take and interpretations on the book essentialism by Greg Mckeown feel free to check it out :)
Stone Shilp
Stone Shilp - Måned siden
Hlo from India....
Claire Willow
Claire Willow - Måned siden
Ohh man if my husband had gone to a meeting while I was in the hospital after giving birth I would be LIVID lol like I would whoop his ass 😂🙈
Great video btw!! Thank you 🙏🏻
Leo
Leo - Måned siden
This video an is a pure irony, two workaholics talk about happy living? I think the future of youtube is for psychologists to come out and tell how every so called successful person is undergoing therapy. Clearly the word 'less' has been abused relentlessly in this video. Essentialism is a word freely interpreted by the owner not a word that has a genuine meaning for all (what is essential for one person may be completely rubbish for another).
RubbyDuckky
RubbyDuckky - Måned siden
I think in my very slow pursuit to become a minimalist I’ve accidentally become an essentialist.
renewing eyes
renewing eyes - Måned siden
love that instead of minimalist, essentialist
Ian Kyster
Ian Kyster - Måned siden
20:30
sn mn
sn mn - 2 måneder siden
So apparently I was an essentialist this whole time.. 😊
Hayley Beck
Hayley Beck - 2 måneder siden
Work smarter, not harder.
Alba GR
Alba GR - 2 måneder siden
Amazing.
Inna Mykhailova
Inna Mykhailova - 2 måneder siden
Thank you, Matt for amazing videos!
-perclf
-perclf - 2 måneder siden
The difference with social media is that it's designed to waste most time on it.
Sofia
Sofia - 2 måneder siden
great video! this made me learn a lot about myself & i think i'm getting the book.
personal notes from the video:
- let conscience be the guide. success is a poor teacher. be discerning.
- we're busy bc other people are. hyperconnectivity.
- get enough sleep so you can discern properly
- if you don't prioritize your life, someone else will.
- accept that we are saying no all the time & everybody is. we say no in a compulsive way. say no within yourself.
- discipline pursuit of less but better
- buffering systems
- next level contributions
- 3x
- there are things that are far more important but less urgent to you. be cautious in pushing those away
- aligned: right thing, right time, right reasons, buffer & execute --> interest: if i pursue this, will i still have a buffer?
- buffer as key to consistency
- patience is active waiting: upper and lower bound of behavior -> bc goal is to do this consistently
- impatience drives consistency with the right mindset: "knowing what we know, how can we create buffers, upper and lower bounds?"
- know yourself & what you arent -> success -> make decisions from there based on conscience and not your success
- non-essentialism: it's over before it begins
- exchange value
- you can't say everything to everyone: what is your carefully curated message you're trying to share? don't get consumed by the noise. what are you trying to say + impt voice of clarity
- more effort ≠ more results
- justification for focus: if you believe that some things are more necessary than others, your behaviors will change with it too > not everything has equal value: it's about finding those things with proper value
- difficult to overstate the unimportance of everything
- trivial many vs vital few: figure those out & build systems to protect them
JG
JG - 2 måneder siden
Anyone else here just admiring Matt’s hairline and wishing theirs was just as solid?
Alex H
Alex H - 2 måneder siden
I’m just wondering what he grounds essentialism in
Jacob roland
Jacob roland - 3 måneder siden
Absolutely life changing. Thank you!
Marg
Marg - 3 måneder siden
That was a bit long winded for a concept that stems out of economics 101: opportunity cost. You can be jack of all trades, but master of none.
Claire Willow
Claire Willow - Måned siden
Ya but saying it like that takes out the passion and persuasion of the message ✌️
Corey Singleton
Corey Singleton - 3 måneder siden
Greg is currently changing my life! I started less with more in my life and think it's so important for us to understand what actually matters for us in our life everything else outside of that is all noise. My work has been more clear and my days really are intentional.
Stella Karaman
Stella Karaman - 3 måneder siden
This is the best video I have watched about minimalism/essentialism. Thank you
This is also my first public comment on a YouTube video, but I had to let you know.
Julia-Rose Vuong
Julia-Rose Vuong - 3 måneder siden
LOOOOOOVE this book!!!!
Norman Mc Neely
Norman Mc Neely - 4 måneder siden
Mind blown! This is me, (or at least what I aim for).
Nandigam Charan
Nandigam Charan - 4 måneder siden
I have lucid dreams almost everyday, but never thought of them deeply.... When i have them I know I’m dreaming, I control them... I almost never been able to wake up of of them.. because they feel so good...
Anas Aamer
Anas Aamer - 4 måneder siden
"Working hard is important"
I think if you replace hardwork with the ability to focus, then we can see how essentialism works. From what I'm seeing, prioritizing the vital few can increase that ability to focus
Anas Aamer
Anas Aamer - 4 måneder siden
4:21 Is it worse for content creators to feel as if their agenda is being hijacked? Especially if you're creating what you love
Jeff C
Jeff C - 4 måneder siden
I just want to say that I read Essentialism by Greg McKeown. The vast majority of it was common sense.
Annalisa Kite
Annalisa Kite - 4 måneder siden
Ge rid of "all or nothing" thinking and replace it with "some is always better than none".
Annalisa Kite
Annalisa Kite - 4 måneder siden
It's all about priorities, focus and choice. You can't do everything or have everything. You've got to choose.
Srđan Milivojević
Srđan Milivojević - 4 måneder siden
Brilliant video mate
Lara Förster
Lara Förster - 5 måneder siden
This opened up my eyes into a new way of thinking ! This is truly inspiring
Flavia Hodgin
Flavia Hodgin - 5 måneder siden
Greg--Does one HAVE to make a contribution? There is something about this "should" that rings off to me.
vanessa odorissio
vanessa odorissio - 5 måneder siden
23:58 Young Dwayne Johnson's picture on the wall LOL
Jordan Belfort
Jordan Belfort - 5 måneder siden
What I took home from this video: Essentialism builds upon the Pareto Principle: Prioritizing the vital few over the trivial many.
Christine Givens
Christine Givens - 5 måneder siden
‘So busy’ for 20+ years resulted in such ill health I have been stopped in my tracks and no longer value ‘busy’ or the things ‘busy’ allowed me to possess. Thank you for this excellent post. Love the book. Love your work Matt. Keep it up. It’s a shame I had to get ill to reset my priorities but in a weird way I’m thankful for the experience. At least I learnt it in time to appreciate my new found life.
Pocket Rocket stuff
Pocket Rocket stuff - 5 måneder siden
Couldn't appreciate your videos more, Matt.
The habit-tracker is set right beside me.
Two heavy packages full of unnecessary stuff are right behind me, wating for getting lost.
And yeah, I also learn English by these great podcasts :D
Cili Oakenshield
Cili Oakenshield - 5 måneder siden
I also think the idea of using your stories on instagram/Snapchat and sharing all the positive details of your life its even more "oh i need to do that"
Like. Seeing that "oh hey amanda got boba tea for lunch I need that" "oh Rachel did her makeup this morning i should do that" it's gotten to where your not even comparing/judging yourself compared to peoples big life decisions, but to even the small miniscule things that are very unlikely to ever actually matter
Daily Theology
Daily Theology - 5 måneder siden
I can only imagine him playing that "no stopping driving game" in rush hour in Nashville :) Great video thanks guys!
Tawfiq Mouslim
Tawfiq Mouslim - 6 måneder siden
Hello everyone, I have a question I hope someone can give me an answer
what is the difference between essentialism and minimalism?
Tawfiq Mouslim
Tawfiq Mouslim - 5 måneder siden
@Cili Oakenshield aha i got it, thank you so much :)
Cili Oakenshield
Cili Oakenshield - 5 måneder siden
Minimalism is more object based, essentialism is more for work. Essentialism seems to be like the specific term for minimalism in regards to work
Jozjazz1952
Jozjazz1952 - 6 måneder siden
I wasn’t ready for this a year ago... it’s so impactful to me now. What a great talk 💕
asirak ollitsac
asirak ollitsac - 6 måneder siden
I go on Youtube to get motivated especially when I'm feeling down. What sucks is when I forget to TURN OFF the auto play and the next thing I know I'm listening and watching 5 videos of Matt D'Avella...
Aymen Arif
Aymen Arif - 6 måneder siden
The best part about ur videos on YouTube is that, you provide quality stuff even here and don’t reserve important information merely for ur patreon account. U truly value providing quality to everyone. 👍🏼💫
n zazzara
n zazzara - 6 måneder siden
Very good thnx
Buchanan Games
Buchanan Games - 6 måneder siden
10:56 ..i’ve recently learnt this the hard way, i’ve been fortunate enough to be handed a second chance in the form of two additional weeks - the kind of second chance that doesn’t ever really exist, bending the rules quite heavily
i won’t always get this luck
but now i must put in the grind, take a knee, dig deep, find my grit and push myself close to burnout to get this done ✌️ Matt, i cannot thank you, your guests and all your work enough 💛
Mateo Jiménez
Mateo Jiménez - 7 måneder siden
This conversation is delicious. Thank you Matt
Serafin Nunez
Serafin Nunez - 7 måneder siden
"Undisciplined success is a recipe for failure..." Truth.
craffte
craffte - 7 måneder siden
"Patience is not passive, on the contrary, it is a concentrated strength." -- Bruce Lee
LauraLivin
LauraLivin - 7 måneder siden
Such a great conversation. Thank you.
Landon kepp
Landon kepp - 7 måneder siden
I just watched 3 of your podcasts in a row, appreciate the quality and effort man, keep it up ❤️from Taiwan
Muchacho
Muchacho - 7 måneder siden
This is pure genius.